Technology Crosses the Line with Lulu
With the recent
boom of technology, the way we buy products has changed. Instead of going to a
physical location, we now have the option of ordering everything from clothes
to computer products to home furniture online. Websites such as Yelp.com also
offer invaluable services to compare different restaurants and other businesses
for optimal quality. Applications like RedLaser and Price Check from Amazon
allow users to compare prices for the cheapest buy.
The prevalent use
of social media has increased the potential for success and flop for business,
museums, and even movies. Technology has enabled us to find the best product in
the least amount of time. Why waste time in a terrible restaurant when Yelp.com
is telling you that there’s a fantastic Italian restaurant down the street?
These websites are incredibly helpful in every day life but when is it going
too far? Currently, there is a website or app for book suggestions, clothing
and style suggestions, and now even dating suggestions.
There have been
online dating websites like eHarmony before, where one can create an online
persona and meet people through the web. The app Lulu goes one step further by
labeling men as one would label and rate a business or a movie. There are many
categories such as attractiveness, intelligence, manners, etc. that a man can
be rated on. These ratings are backed by a picture and basic information, like a
relationship status, from Facebook. Scarily enough, any guy who has a Facebook
has automatically been downloaded onto this program.
This app has
disregarded the fact that people should be treated like people and not objects
that can be bought. I understand the usefulness of comparing restaurants and
different types of rugs, but comparing people like this is a form of bullying.
Whatever happened to the connection that people form from face to face? This
app is creating rumors about people and could ruin their relationship and
confidence based on statements that may or may not be true.
First impressions
are very important and have always been important, until now. Lulu introduces a
person based on what other people think about them. With the simple search of a
first and last name, the opportunity for a first impression is gone.
On
blog.onlulu.com, the makers of this app state that finding love is complicated
and time consuming. This app would allow women to narrow down their choices
quickly and efficiently, like scouring Amazon.com for the best camera case.
Love and relationships should be built on personal connections that have
nothing to do with reputations and these ratings. Relationships should take
time and effort. This app and apps like this will cause nothing but rumors,
speculation, and the loss of personal connections. Lulu has already rid women
of the first impression and how far we will allow this to go before saying no?
The key problem to this app is the fact that humans are not simple products
that come with a bar code and a list of features. I rarely say this, but
technology has crossed the line.
I have to agree with you, this totally crosses a line. I mean: ANY guy on Facebook? I'm pretty sure that's illegal. Unless Facebook has made some kind of deal, which wouldn't surprise me.
ReplyDeleteThe thought of being rated on an app by people I don't even know is terrible
Sometimes, when I'm having a hyperventilation attack, my friends have to carry me to class. They make jokes about it, that I'm some kind of parcel. I think that's where it starts to go wrong: when we see eachother as things.
I know! This app is so creepy!
ReplyDeleteYeah, sometimes my friends do that to. Or refer to other people as objects and that's when I feel kind of iffy about what they're saying.
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